If you harm someone, you only harm yourself. Those who harm others will (sooner or later) get to feel this. I have often heard that everything is supposedly one, that everything is supposedly connected, but to protect ourselves we distance ourselves from people who are not good for us or who harm us. We don't sympathize with everyone.
Often in life (at least in my case) it is the case that at the beginning of our contact with someone we feel sympathy for them, have the feeling that we are on the same wavelength, but only over time you really get to know people and realize that you were wrong about them.
People who don't appreciate you don't deserve you. You can always tell yourself that you are their loss and not vice versa. If they really appreciated you, they wouldn't treat you badly and wouldn't make them lose you. Only keep people in your life who appreciate you, because only they are worth your time and energy.
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